Sermon 02/14/10
Ode 3
A Celebration of Love and Friendship

"Ever since there have been human beings,

we have given ourselves over to too little joy.

That alone . . . is our original sin.

I should believe only in a God

who understood how to dance."

-Henri Matisse

Today is both Mardi Gras Sunday and Valentines Day, and I'm going to attempt to weave together the elements of these two themes in my reflection. I can think of no better way to start then with a modern day retelling of the familiar story "The Princess and the Frog." The story goes like this. . .

There once was a beautiful princess who, while walking by a lake, happened upon a rather large and rather homely frog. The frog said to the princess, "I know you think I am just a frog but I was once a handsome prince. All it takes is a kiss from you and I will become a prince again. So kiss me and I will marry you and you shall cook and clean for me, and attend to my every whim, and bear me children and raise them while I am away having marvelous adventures." Later that night, while the princess dined on frog legs, she thought to herself, "I don't think so."

That little saga is one way of weaving together Mardi Gras and Valentines Day. Let's take a look at the components of these two days separately.

The themes of Mardi Gras:

Carnival and pageantry

liberty and freedom,

hilarity and excess

equality and social reversals

music and revelry

suspension of the normal rules

celebration.

Emilie Griffin, in her essay titled, "Shrove Tuesday," speaks eloquently of her experience of Mardi Gras growing up in New Orleans. She writes,

For a long time now I have been conscious of a deep spiritual power in this festival. It is a spirituality of the marketplace, of the particular, of the here-and-now. This feast day is a sort of Punch-and-Judy show of the human spirit. And I can't help thinking that it fits with the example of our rabbi who ate and drank and made merry with his disciples. Like Christmas, it is a Christianizing of a pagan holiday; Mardi Gras is deeply connected to early earth- and folk-religion. This time of hilarity, like May Day or Midsummer's Eve, brings out the fool in us, the actor who sees life as a work of the imagination.

In New Orleans the festival has taken on very large proportions, beginning at Twelfth Night and offering a long season of merriment day and night: street parades with floats, trinkets being thrown to the crowds by masked revelers, marching bands, and formal balls with courts and pageantry. Liturgically, this celebration is like Hallowe'en, the shadow side of a great opportunity for holiness. But the spirit of rejoicing in this feast is more like a second Christmas, a time for the people, the working classes, to be temporarily set free from cares and obligations. It is a release from the bondage to winter (which though not always cold, can be very rainy and bitter in New Orleans) and a time to cherish friendship and simplicity of heart.

The chief attitude of the holiday is one of peaceful revolution. When the spirit rules, the kingdoms of this world are overturned.

Emilie Griffin in The Chrysostom Society,

STORIES FOR THE CHRISTIAN YEAR, p.51f

Valentines Day, obviously, is the feast day celebration of the birth of the Hallmark Greeting Card. Some say it began long before Hallmark with the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia. This was a pagan fertility festival that began on February 15. Later church leaders, unable to put a stop to this festival, claimed it as a celebration of Saint Valentine who was martyred in the third century.

The themes of Valentines day:

Love and friendship

romance and courtship

pagan fertility festival roots

Context of this time just before Lent begins:

The storm before the quiet

embracing the shadow before the transformation of Easter

Let us turn now to the sixteenth century to one of the most well-known love poems in the English language.

POEM: "The Passionate Shepherd to his Love"

by Christopher Marlowe (ca. 1590)

Come live with me and be my love,
And we will all the pleasures prove
That hills and valleys, dale and field,
And all the craggy mountains yield.

There will we sit upon the rocks,
And see the shepherds feed their flocks,
By shallow rivers to whose falls
Melodious birds sing madrigals.

There I will make thee beds of roses
And a thousand fragrant posies,
A cap of flowers, and a kirtle
Embroider'd all with leaves of myrtle;

A gown made of the finest wool
Which from our pretty lambs we pull;
Fair linèd slippers for the cold,
With buckles of the purest gold;

A belt of straw and ivy buds,
With coral clasps and amber studs;
And if these pleasures may thee move,
Come live with me, and be my love.

Thy silver dishes for thy meat
As precious as the gods do eat,
Shall on an ivory table be
Prepared each day for thee and me.

The shepherd swains shall dance and sing
For thy delight each May-morning:
If these delights thy mind may move,
Then live with me and be my love.

In Elizabethan England in the late Renaissance it just doesn't get any more romantic than that! It's rhythmic, idealistic and passionate. And the shepherd didn't have to wait long for his love's reply. Sir Walter Raleigh, a contemporary of Marlowe's, wrote a poem in response.

POEM: "The Nymph's Reply to the Shepherd"

by Sir Walter Raleigh

If all the world and love were young,
And truth in every shepherd's tongue,
These pretty pleasures might me move
To live with thee and be thy love.

Time drives the flocks from field to fold
When rivers rage and rocks grow cold,
And Philomel becometh dumb;
The rest complains of cares to come.

The flowers do fade, and wanton fields
To wayward winter reckoning yields;
A honey tongue, a heart of gall,
Is fancy's spring, but sorrow's fall,

Thy gowns, thy shoes, thy beds of roses,
Thy cap, thy
kirtle, and thy posies
Soon break, soon wither, soon forgotten--
In folly ripe, in reason rotten.

Thy belt of straw and ivy buds,
Thy coral clasps and amber studs,
All these in me no means can move
To come to thee and be thy love.

But could youth last and love still breed,
Had joys no date nor age no need,
Then these delights my mind may move
To live with thee and be thy love.

Not quite the response the passionate shepherd was looking for! Talk about getting shot down! Raleigh's nymph is rather harsh in her rejection of the poor shepherd, especially given the British love for understatement.

Yet this is oddly fitting for our Mardi Gras celebration today, for this is a time in which the normal rules are suspended, imagination and revelry trump reason and experience, and we may well pretend that youth can last, that love shall always be potent, fertile, and alive, that joys are timeless and eternal, age is no limitation, and all these delights can still move us to live and love more fully.

Emilie Griffin writes,

The capacity for make-believe is part of our childlikeness. It is this talent we may exercise (not often enough) when we pray and when we play. To make believe is to express a hope that things may be more perfect, happier, more glorious, more heavenly, more humorous. Mardi Gras is a moment when we may (if we enter into it fully) remember and act out again our heart's desire.

Ibid., p. 52

Today whether you choose to celebrate Mardis Gras, Valentines Day, or simply the fact that Lent hasn't started yet, let us bring our childlike optimism, enthusiasm and imagination as we enjoy this festive day.


The Odes of Solomon

Ode 3

I am putting on your love, O God,

I am clothing myself with you, for you love me.

How would I know how to love you, God,

If you did not love me?

And who can tell us about love?

Only one who is loved.

I love you, my beloved, and my soul loves you.

I am where you repose and I will be no stranger.

For you are not petty or jealous,

My high, merciful God.

I have gone to unite with you,

For the lover has found the beloved,

And because I love the child,

I shall become your child.

Whoever joins the immortal becomes immortal.

Whoever delights in the Living One is living.

This is the Spirit of God.

It does not lie. It teaches us your ways.

Be wise. Be understanding,

And let your eyes be open.

Hallelujah!


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